Disclaimer: This is not a “get rich quick” type of content. I am not a money coach. Possibly, I’ll write one about money management in the future. Although it is not about money, it is about wealth. Such wealth comes in the form of friendships.

Yes, friendships are a form of wealth. Sometimes people make you question the validity of that statement, but it is true. But think of it this way: we are human resources with untapped potential. When someone (a friend) invests in us, we are able to do better, and be better.

Through friendships, we discover much about ourselves and others. We develop interpersonal skills by spending time with people. You laugh, find out what makes you tick, as well as your interests. Relationships of this nature also show us that we are not alone in this world. 

With the advent of social media, however, the term “friend” is used loosely. Though these sites lay the foundation for people to know each other better, more often than not, people end up being social media junkies and acquaintances rather than true friends.

What then is a true friend?

Are your friends true friends?

These are questions that persons from all walks of life need to ask themselves. Go further. Ask yourself more tough questions.

Do your friends build you up?

Do your friends tell you when you are wrong in a loving manner?

Are they honest?

Do they support and celebrate you?

Can you call on them in a crisis?

Can they keep your secrets?

Do they hold you accountable?

Perhaps after evaluation, you realize that there are only a few people in your life who are your true friends. It is okay if you don’t have an entourage like some of our modern-day Dancehall artists. Seriously, have you seen some of these stage shows with hype men and women, but it adds nothing to the performance?

What really matters is the quality of those relationships you have. The way I see it, it’s better to have a few friends who will build you up than ten who will stress you out. Your peace of mind is worth much, especially in today’s world.

Also, ask yourself, “Am I a true friend”? Do you value the people around you and hold them accountable?

The thing is, friendships are two-way streets. Be the type of friend you want to have. Reciprocate the love you find in your friendships. Don’t only go out and have fun. Build each other up. Grow together. Be a shoulder, a helping hand and a voice of reason when they act like a fool. Communicate. Value the people you call your friends. Value the gift of community. Care about them and not only what they can do (for you). After all, true friendships will not be sustainable if you neglect to hold each other accountable.

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